1. Don’t pay attention to other people’s ideas
In most cases, this is not the case. They don’t think about you, they don’t even care about you. Except for the most intimate people in life. Most people don’t care about you or what you do. Most people worry only about themselves. What do they look like? How you feel. How they will move forward. They will only be interested in you if your life affects them. When you look better, it looks worse when you compare. If you succeed, they don’t seem to be so successful compared to you. But you don’t have to worry about it. Instead, take care of the most important things in your life and say “damn everything.” Free yourself from the point of view of others.
2. Take 100% responsibility for everything in your life
When we take full responsibility, we can lead our own future. Of course, some things are not your fault, but if you still take responsibility for them, they can not control you. A lot of people give up too much responsibility. It was my parents’ fault. It was my teacher’s fault. It was my boss’s fault. Every little responsibility you give to others is a little power over your own life that you don’t have. You ask them to give them an endorsement and return it to you if they approve of you. But many do not give it. Instead, they get it themselves. Now there are even fewer of you. Are you losing your job because you and your boss are not doing well? It’s amazing. It’s not their fault, it’s your fault. You could do it better, get to know them better and understand where they come from. Take responsibility for it, insist, take their strength from them and go ahead.
3. Do your best, don’t limit yourself
We are very worried about finding our only people in passion, calling, calling, goals, and life. At the same time, life passes by us. Instead, do everything you dream about. At the end of life, people have no regrets about what they have done.
4.Consistency. A small step a day
We think we should be able to see nearby start-ups, billionaires, celebrities and sports stars and become the focus of attention. Success is not like that. Success is the cumulative effect of moving toward singles. By taking a small step every day, you can help yourself, as this is a small step to move forward and move toward your goals. The point is. Do something every day, big or small.
5. Give yourself a future
Living your life now is like affecting the future for decades. If you need a few years of education, get to work right away. If you want to get rich in retirement, invest now. If you want to stay healthy in old age, eat and exercise now. What you do now will ultimately affect your future, now, not tomorrow, next month, next year. Whether it’s a good choice or a bad choice, it’s a good choice or a bad choice. Because it’s always easy to make easy and fun choices now.